This workshop is based the the national best selling book Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. The workshop is designed to help couples transform their committed relationships into the relationship of their desires.

This is a two-day workshop designed to help couples begin to heal the history each brought into the relationship and the history they have created together, and to rediscover the joy of being together. The workshop will focus on the relationship with one’s partner. Except for brief introductions, couples will work either alone or with their partner and will not be expected to share anything with the group unless they choose to do so during feedback sessions or skill demonstrations. Rather than passively absorbing lecture materials, participants will be asked to initiate the rediscovery of their relationship with all its how's and whys. Often they will write down details about their needs and frustrations in the relationship and then will be given a format, which allows them to share that information with their partner in a way that encourages understanding rather than defensiveness and blame.

• at the beginning stages of a committed relationship and want to avoid the wounding and hurt that you may have experienced in past relationships.
• in a committed relationship that mostly works, but you want to stretch into a marriage that is truly great.
• deciding whether to end your marriage and are somewhat open to a last effort at finally getting your needs met.
• in a difficult relationship and want to solve long-standing conflicts, making history … history.

• Why you picked each other to begin with and why the very qualities that attracted you to each other now often drive you crazy.
• How to build trust and safety.
• How to move from blame towards cooperation and express your frustrations in non-hurtful ways.
• How to effectively communicate.
• How to renew the passion, pleasure and intimacy in your relationship.

Saturday 8:30am-7:30 pm
Sunday 9:00am- 6:30 pm

The fee for the workshop is $688 per couple which includes tuition, two workbooks, and refreshments throughout both days. Upon receipt of your deposit, a confirmation letter will be mailed to you and will include information on the location of the workshop as well as local hotel accommodations. We suggest that you reserve a hotel room, especially if you have obligations at home, so that you can concentrate on each other and the skills you will be learning.

PAYING BY CHECK: Your check for ½ the workshop cost must be received within 7 days of this registration in order to reserve your space. Your check for the remaining $344.00 is due the morning the workshop begins.

PAYING BY CREDIT CARD: You will have two charges on your credit card covering the cost of the workshop. ½ the cost of the workshop ($344.00) will be charged to your credit card when you register for the workshop. The remaining $344.00 will be charged the Friday before the workshop you are attending begins.

CANCELLATION POLICY: If you cancel ten (10) days or more prior to the start of the workshop, you will receive a refund less a $50 administrative fee. If you cancel nine (9) days or less prior to the workshop, your registration fee of $344.00 is non-refundable. However, you may apply the registration or admin fee toward any other workshop presented by the Stolps within one year. Your registration (without cancellation) is nonrefundable if you do not attend or do not complete the course. The presenters are not responsible for prepaid, nonrefundable travel arrangements. A minimum of six couples are required in order for the workshop to be held. The presenters reserve the right to cancel the course should this criteria not be met and a full refund will be made.

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